As It Is - The Stigma [Boys Dont Cry] (Official Music Video)

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Taken from the new album 'The Great Depression.'
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Directed by Our World Is Grey // www.owig.co.uk/
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I see a pain behind your eyes,
I know you feel it everyday.
It’s like a light that slowly dies,
but it’s better not to say such things out loud.
Just close your eyes and bite your tongue for now.
Don’t let them see you fall.
Stay strong,
hold on,
you’ve got to keep it together now.
Just dry your eyes,
‘cause boys don’t cry.
You feel an emptiness inside,
how it sinks into your soul.
But it’s nothing you can’t hide;
just forget about the hole beneath your skin that’s swallowing the best of you within.
Don’t let them see you fall.


  1. Dacian Miron

    Dacian Miron

    преди 19 часа

    If you're having a bad day, just remember that in Airbud some dude got replaced by a golden retriever.

  2. Jayden Howard

    Jayden Howard

    преди 3 дни

    Fuck when is the tour ?

  3. ChuckRadaman Gaming

    ChuckRadaman Gaming

    преди 5 дни

    I've not seen anyone mention that at the end when the woman yells "Silence" at the girls, its also bringing to light how women are often told to be silent and let men do all the talking.

  4. Andrea piola

    Andrea piola

    преди 8 дни

    Me da miedito pero me gustó ah

  5. Jamed Keeling the gamer and hacker lol

    Jamed Keeling the gamer and hacker lol

    преди 12 дни

    is this patty walters

  6. Halloween


    преди 14 дни

    Band is trying to raise awareness for a serious issue about how most guys don't open up about their issues due to the whole idea they need to be strong and don't let shit get to them and 90% of the comments be about eyeliner and emo's. congrats

  7. Peter Cesar Ybiernas

    Peter Cesar Ybiernas

    преди 24 дни

    Emo never Diee!

  8. Too Epic

    Too Epic

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  11. Leila Hamka

    Leila Hamka

    преди месец


  12. Kim Hansen

    Kim Hansen

    преди месец


  13. sweetener


    преди месец


  14. Léo Films

    Léo Films

    преди месец

    This video is a tribute to everyone who doesn't fit societies standard

  15. Deathly Hallows Hufflepuff4

    Deathly Hallows Hufflepuff4

    преди месец

    I love how bands like this are a thing. I’m 12 and I love this music. I wish it was more popular, but I’m glad there bands like As It Is ,Badflower , Palaye Royale, and Set It Off keeping this stuff alive. 🖤🖤🖤🖤

  16. Marcelo Monsalves

    Marcelo Monsalves

    преди месец

    peter parker?

  17. Kerene Smith

    Kerene Smith

    преди месец

    Stop saying crap. Boys cry And it's freaking adorable!

  18. SydneyChromatic


    преди месец

    See what participation trophies are doing to the youth... I mean mid 20 year old millenials.???

  19. ASMAN -

    ASMAN -

    преди месец

    Make us alive again.

  20. Survival Of The Deities

    Survival Of The Deities

    преди месец

    the cure did it better u fags

  21. Mary Bernal

    Mary Bernal

    преди месец

    this song has helped me out so much.

  22. Saryn J

    Saryn J

    преди месец

    I would like to believe The Cure would be proud. This is so beyond beautiful.

  23. Natalie Caro

    Natalie Caro

    преди месец

    Wtff I swear I thought this song came out like 2010

  24. Sebastian Koon

    Sebastian Koon

    преди месец

    You may b stranded but bottle those tears up boy the oceans already salty enough.. Honestly one of my fav songs

  25. mary tynamo

    mary tynamo

    преди месец

    Holy fuck, I just came here after hearing Patty's teenage dirtbag covef :O

  26. Kiwi


    преди месец

    Ah yes a great place to learn how to do a tie.

    • King Tuck

      King Tuck

      преди месец

      It's actually super easy

  27. Anna Shiboblay

    Anna Shiboblay

    преди 2 месеца

    I don’t think I’ve seen a more beautiful human being than Patty Walters

  28. Zen Kuroi

    Zen Kuroi

    преди 2 месеца

    The fuck is this shit, i thought it was a The Cure cover

  29. Alu Folie

    Alu Folie

    преди 2 месеца

    So, I listened to this while driving, with a friend sitting in the passenger seat, and I sang along and my friend looked at me, totally weirded out, 'cause they didn't get that the song's intention is actually the opposite of "boys don't cry". ^^"

  30. Just Creepy InSide

    Just Creepy InSide

    преди 2 месеца

    Isnt it a bit sarcastic that they shout "Boys dont cry" through the door after the other boy went out for Crying...? xD

    • Anarcha Media

      Anarcha Media

      преди 9 дни

      @Just Creepy InSide Not sarcasm,it`s addressing abusive toxic masculine relations through the perspective of both the abuser and the one being abused.

  31. Rei Do Drama

    Rei Do Drama

    преди 2 месеца

    My emo trans feminine gay boy ass it's such in love with this rn

  32. blonde jovi

    blonde jovi

    преди 2 месеца

    fuck me this band is doing incredible things

  33. I'm Gay

    I'm Gay

    преди 2 месеца

    this video was a real punch in the gut : ( but it was good except for my crying

  34. ivy laws

    ivy laws

    преди 2 месеца

    This got me through 8th grade, anyone else

  35. Jinx Rogue

    Jinx Rogue

    преди 2 месеца


  36. Ella McCreary

    Ella McCreary

    преди 2 месеца

    i love how the ending is kind of a nod to the problems women face. it’s solidarity: we both have systematic problems and just because one group is struggling doesn’t mean the others aren’t as well. that’s why i hate people who say “i’m not a feminist because men have problems too”. the point isn’t that men aren’t struggling. we all face different kinds of issues, but they’re all valid

  37. Vaxity


    преди 2 месеца

    I didnt even realize this was patty walters

  38. Otairzinho Mil Grau

    Otairzinho Mil Grau

    преди 2 месеца

    Me: Emo is dead *Listen As It Is* Me:Oh Shit,Here we go again

  39. Cassie Chavez

    Cassie Chavez

    преди 2 месеца

    1:47 my fave part

  40. Король Царь

    Король Царь

    преди 2 месеца

    It's a world of pain and suffering I emo 2019

  41. Vanlaura cp

    Vanlaura cp

    преди 2 месеца

    Friend: your emo Me in all black: i am not Friend: you listen to Get Scared, At It Is, Three Days Grace and Set It Off so your emo Me in my head: wait am i emo? i guess so

    • Mikayla Jackson

      Mikayla Jackson

      преди 7 часа

      I guess I'm emo too then lmao I listen to all of those🤷

  42. Chetkiy Vid

    Chetkiy Vid

    преди 3 месеца


    • Chetkiy Vid

      Chetkiy Vid

      преди 2 месеца


  43. Erik Granados

    Erik Granados

    преди 3 месеца

    Hey y’all! I recently uploaded a cover of this song! It’d mean a lot if y’all check it out!! 🤘🏽😈😈😈

    • andybiersackforever


      преди 3 месеца

      @Erik Granados np

    • Erik Granados

      Erik Granados

      преди 3 месеца

      andybiersackforever awesome thanks so much that means a lot! 😘

    • andybiersackforever


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  44. honey senpai

    honey senpai

    преди 3 месеца

    sucks when your transgender and people put high male standards on you and all like damn everyone cries

  45. Faby


    преди 3 месеца


  46. Jamed Keeling the gamer and hacker lol

    Jamed Keeling the gamer and hacker lol

    преди 3 месеца

    my favorite emo song :)

  47. Kimipotpot


    преди 3 месеца

    i love this song, tho im a girl

  48. Я Хронос

    Я Хронос

    преди 3 месеца

    О боже, это же армия, как страшно😂, да ну на#хуй

  49. Nick Von

    Nick Von

    преди 3 месеца

    I'm sorry but this is really stupid lamo

    • My Chemical Emotions

      My Chemical Emotions

      преди 3 месеца

      I think It's better if you keep your opinion to yourself. If you don't have constructive criticism then kindly leave. :)

  50. no you

    no you

    преди 3 месеца

    Why am i here? I'm not looking for a new fandom...

  51. Munch Sis

    Munch Sis

    преди 3 месеца

    I know this is to end the stigma of men being seen in society as feminine for being emotional but, even tho I’m female, I can relate because growing up in an old fashioned Mexican family meant I got smacked in the back of the head if my eyes got even a little watery



    преди 3 месеца

    Me 2019: pretends to like what ever music people put one As it Is 2019: is a thing Me right now : BUYS ALL THE EYELINER



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    преди 3 месеца

    Emo Live😍😍😍I'm EMO FOREVER

  55. Nathalia De araujo palopoli

    Nathalia De araujo palopoli

    преди 3 месеца

    Oi sou nathalia do brasil eu não conhecia sua banda mais quando ouvi a musica adorei suas musicas sao umasimo e adorei

  56. Adrianna Rodriguez

    Adrianna Rodriguez

    преди 3 месеца

    Someone: EMO IS DEAD💀 Me:(wearing black clothes and black eyeliner, earphones blasting rock music full volume) IT NEVER WAS DEAD 🙅🖕🖕🤘

  57. julahulas


    преди 3 месеца

    Oof for a second I thought this was boys who cry and they finally made it a real band But at least I found a nice song for emo time

  58. The Juntti Paska

    The Juntti Paska

    преди 3 месеца


  59. Dream On Fire

    Dream On Fire

    преди 3 месеца

    I don't know how I got here....BUT I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

  60. Catalina Myrrhpaw

    Catalina Myrrhpaw

    преди 3 месеца

    My elementary school was like that for both boys and girls

    • Catalina Myrrhpaw

      Catalina Myrrhpaw

      преди 3 месеца

      @Diana Mendez an EA when I was in grade 2 did shiz like that but I ment the you can't cry thing

    • Diana Mendez

      Diana Mendez

      преди 3 месеца

      They got hit by the teachers? 🙄